It's so huge, oh my god.
As a disclaimer, I want you to know that I do not think that I am really good enough to be teaching anybody anything, but some people were curious about how I go about things, so please don't think of this as a RIGHT way.
I don't really think there totally is a RIGHT way anyhow, if you can get something to work for you, then it works for you! BLAM!
Hope it's semi-helpful.
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